my good attitiude about things

my mom said i have a positive attitude about things. i was telling her i have a biological father and i do not see him cause he has other stuff to do and he has not been around for a real long time so i just figure that actually they would want to see me but they have other things to do and deal with their own things so whatever cause actually i would not have any sympathy since its their choice and i just do what i have to do anyway.   people just have to deal with their own things and you know if they want to do stuff with me and they just dont then i simply dont have sympathy for them. i dont let things get to me even if i have something going on you know i just dont let things get to me in other words if i feel that i dont see him a lot then i tipically dont have sympathy for him since he doesnt really even know me like he doesnt know that i have a lot of school stuff going on with transition so i figure i have other people in my life that are always there for me and always care about me and you know they want to be around me and want to do stuff with me and that is how i keep my good attitude.   i simply focus on people who focus on me and thats it.